Add lessons learned, mmap/auto-select implementation plan, session ha… #26

Job	Run time
macOS MPI build	4m 7s
macOS CUDA graceful rejection	1m 20s
Linux MPI build + test	4m 44s
Linux CUDA configure (no GPU needed)	4m 36s
Windows MPI configure	1m 41s
	16m 28s

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