How to get other peers connected to the bootstrap node?

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Hello, I have a listener and dialer .js files that both use bootstrap list, that list has one address which belongs to another locally running node.

now the listener is connected to the local bootstrap node ... and when I run the dialer it also connects to the bootstrap, but can't find the listener to open connect to it and open a chat stream in the terminal.

it works with mDNS, but I want to do it using bootstrap, can somebody please help me understand what's missing?

this is the node creation in all three files

const node = await createLibp2p({
  addresses: {
    listen: ['/ip4/0.0.0.0/tcp/0']
  },
  transports: [tcp()],
  streamMuxers: [yamux()],
  connectionEncrypters: [noise()],
  peerDiscovery: [
    bootstrap({
      list: bootstrappers  // <-- I run the bootstrap locally, take its address and adjust the list to only have this address. then I run listener and dialer respectively 
    })
  ],
  services: {
    kadDHT: kadDHT({
      clientMode: true,
      protocol: '/ipfs/lan/kad/1.0.0',
      peerInfoMapper: removePublicAddressesMapper,
      validators: {
        [prefix]: async (key, value) => {
          // do nothing, it's valid
        }
      },
      selectors: {
        [prefix]: (key, records) => {
          return 0
        }
      }
    }),
    identify: identify(),
    identifyPush: identifyPush(),
    ping: ping()
  },
  config: {
    dht: {
      // dht must be enabled
      enabled: true
    }
  }
})

What I am trying to do is to somehow in the dialer find the listener and connect to it:

dialerNode.addEventListener('peer:discovery', async (evt) => {
  const bootstrapPeerInfo = evt.detail
  console.log('Discovered:', bootstrapPeerInfo.id.toString())
  // from this peer (local bootstrap) find the listener which is already connected to this peer
 // connect to it using chat protocol
  
})

Thanks in advance :)