Test limited API

After watching
https://ep2024.europython.eu/session/cython-and-the-limited-api/, I wanted
to test how well switching to the stable ABI would work.

It would be great to be able to build a single wheel for each platform and
not have to update when a new Python version gets released.

There are two issues. The first is that using the limited API makes dnaio
slower. Reading FASTQ files takes 50% more time. I did not benchmark anything
else. It was actually about 10 time slower when I used the limited API for
Python 3.7. (This PR uses what is available in Python 3.12.) Maybe this will
get better in newer versions.

The second issue is that still some non-ABI3 symbols are being used in our
code, in particular PyUnicode_New.

abi3audit (https://github.com/pypa/abi3audit) outputs this:

```
$ abi3audit -v --assume-minimum-abi3 3.12 src/dnaio/_core.abi3.so
[09:47:43] 👎 : _core.abi3.so has non-ABI3 symbols
           ┏━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┓
           ┃ Symbol                  ┃
           ┡━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┩
           │ PyUnicode_New           │
           │ Py_CompileStringExFlags │
           │ _Py_FatalErrorFunc      │
           └─────────────────────────┘
           💁 _core.abi3.so: 1 extensions scanned; 0 ABI version mismatches and 3 ABI violations found
```

This PR is just meant to document the experiment, so I’ll close it right
away.

Author: marcelm

setup.py

@@ -10,10 +10,18 @@
 else:
     DEFINE_MACROS = []
 
+DEFINE_MACROS += [
+    ("CYTHON_LIMITED_API", 1),
+    ("Py_Limited_API", 0x030C0000),
+]
+
 setup(
     ext_modules=[
         Extension(
-            "dnaio._core", sources=["src/dnaio/_core.pyx"], define_macros=DEFINE_MACROS
+            "dnaio._core",
+            sources=["src/dnaio/_core.pyx"],
+            define_macros=DEFINE_MACROS,
+            py_limited_api=True,
         ),
     ],
 )