Improve SQL store indices and queries

[gabrielbosio]

• Fixes get_unspent_input_note_nullifiers so that it doesn't take into account invalid notes as unspent notes.
• Changes INSERT OR REPLACE queries to INSERT INTO ... ON CONFLICT UPDATE
• Changes has_client_notes=true/false to has_client_notes=1/0. For the true case, it enforces index usage besides keeping consistency.
• Adds consumer_account_id as the first column of the idx_input_notes_consumption.
  • This made get_input_note_by_offset grow quadratic instead of superlinear so the PR also replaces get_input_note_by_offset with get_input_note_after to avoid using OFFSETs in the SQL store query and instead pass the WHERE values that define the note order the user wants as argument.
• Adds make bench-store to benchmark account/inputs scaling.
• Fixes note-id tie-break on NoteFilter::Consumed query.
• Adds InputNoteReader test coverage

This PR along one that adds query-plan regression tests would close #2348.

[SantiagoPittella]

we could use a CLI test for the new command too