Enable the React Compiler lint rule and bump dependencies

[Aias]

The build already runs the React Compiler, but a component that breaks the Rules of React bails out of optimization silently: no error, just a missed speedup. oxlint 1.70 adds react/react-compiler, which runs the compiler in lint-only mode and reports those bailouts as errors, so lint now enforces what the compiler needs, including the existing convention against hand-written useMemo/useCallback.

Turning the rule on surfaced ten violations, fixed here:

• media-grid: drops two manual useMemos the compiler couldn't preserve (their dependency was a fresh array each render); the compiler memoizes instead.
• masonry: moves measured column heights from a render-read ref into state, removing the manual rerender reducer.
• keyboard shortcuts: swaps the latest-value-in-a-ref patterns for a lazy useState store and useEffectEvent, keeping the global key listener stable without reading refs during render.
• record-lookup: moves the popover's reset-on-close from an effect into the onOpenChange handler, avoiding a synchronous setState cascade.

Also bumps dependencies, most notably the oxc toolchain (oxlint 1.70 / oxfmt 0.55) that ships the rule, plus minor and patch updates to Base UI, tRPC, lucide-react, openai, and the TanStack packages.