[SPARK-51023] log remote address on RPC exception

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What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Add the remote address to the RPC exception log lines. It's already logged for TransportRequestHandler.processStreamRequest(), but not for other types of requests.

Why are the changes needed?

To simplify troubleshooting. We hit this in our production deployments for two cases:

• when the executor and driver are running different Spark versions
• when vulnerability scanner (internal security tool) sends malformed messages

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

By verifying the logs of RpcIntegrationSuite -

25/01/28 15:06:07.439 shuffle-server-3-15 ERROR TransportRequestHandler: Error while invoking RpcHandler#receive() on RPC id 5952848813688034638 from /127.0.0.1:61697
java.lang.RuntimeException: Thrown: the
	at org.apache.spark.network.RpcIntegrationSuite$1.receive(RpcIntegrationSuite.java:73)
	at org.apache.spark.network.server.TransportRequestHandler.processRpcRequest(TransportRequestHandler.java:167)
	at org.apache.spark.network.server.TransportRequestHandler.handle(TransportRequestHandler.java:111)

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No