Issue 5983 - Link ECS task starting to autostop

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Issue

• My PR fully resolves the following issues. I've referenced an issue in the PR title, for example "Issue 1234 - My
  Feature". Note that before an issue is finished, you can still make a pull request by raising a separate issue
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  • Resolves Prevent lambdas starting ECS tasks during deletion in CDK #5983

Tests

• My PR adds the following tests based on our test strategy OR does not need testing for this extremely good reason:
  • Ran AutoStopEcsTaskST in AWS

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