pnpm: update to 10.2.1, add nodejs ver fallback

[i0ntempest]

Description

Type(s)

• bugfix
• enhancement
• security fix

Tested on

macOS x.y
Xcode x.y / Command Line Tools x.y.z

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[macportsbot]

Notifying maintainers:
@sainnhe for port pnpm.