http2: add checks and test for `state.headRequest`

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Though I think headRequest is slightly broken or maybe I don't understand it. There is special handling for it in Http2ServerResponse.end() but not in Http2ServerResponse.write()? Not sure who is a good ping there. @jasnell?

Originally posted by @ronag in #33506

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