fix: lazy loading of arborist and pacote

[wraithgar]

This is a test to try some very limited intentional lazy loading.
Please squash this when and if it comes time to land.

• fix: shuffle arborist requires around
• fix: continue shuffling arborist requires
• fix: decouple arborist from flatoptions
• fix: stop passing arborist to itself
• fix: add self to options passed downstream
• fix: lazy load pacote/chalk during updateNotifier

[npm-cli-bot]

found 4 benchmarks with statistically significant performance improvements

• app-large: show-version, run-script
• app-medium: show-version, run-script

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit	show-version	run-script
npm@9	40.275 ±1.23	18.270 ±0.15	16.928 ±0.05	19.540 ±0.85	3.205 ±0.17	3.068 ±0.04	2.364 ±0.03	11.509 ±0.06	2.379 ±0.01	3.482 ±0.00	0.501 ±0.00	0.521 ±0.01
#6225	40.039 ±2.31	18.208 ±0.12	16.684 ±0.29	20.524 ±0.79	3.166 ±0.03	3.129 ±0.09	2.404 ±0.03	11.743 ±0.04	2.452 ±0.04	3.606 ±0.12	0.362 ±0.01	0.379 ±0.01

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit	show-version	run-script
npm@9	24.397 ±1.22	13.706 ±0.04	12.770 ±0.17	14.038 ±0.18	2.755 ±0.01	2.761 ±0.09	2.396 ±0.04	8.766 ±0.04	2.249 ±0.02	3.101 ±0.01	0.498 ±0.00	0.509 ±0.01
#6225	26.901 ±1.81	13.973 ±0.06	12.947 ±0.01	13.743 ±0.10	2.786 ±0.04	2.789 ±0.04	2.416 ±0.01	8.811 ±0.08	2.338 ±0.02	3.209 ±0.01	0.359 ±0.01	0.379 ±0.00

[nlf]

@npm-cli-bot benchmark this

[wraithgar]

@npm-cli-bot benchmark this