feat(instrumentation-fs): error hook

[raphael-theriault-swi]

Which problem is this PR solving?

This adds a new error hook to the fs instrumentation to let users filter some errors from being reported as span events. This prevents trace data being polluted by irrelevant error events and failed spans for idiomatic filesystem access patterns where an error is expected, for instance opening a file without checking whether it exists then dealing with that case in the error handler.

Short description of the changes

• Adds an optional errorHook option to the config that is called with the function name and error before reporting the error event. If the hook is present and returns false, the error event is not reported.
• The error is still always propagated

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #1963 (b99ec76) into main (038e0bf) will increase coverage by 0.04%.
Report is 5 commits behind head on main.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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[raphael-theriault-swi]

@open-telemetry/javascript-approvers would it be possible for anyone to take a look ?