Add support to disable task update size tracking

[NikhilCollooru]

Description

Add support to disable task update size tracking

Motivation and Context

During some profiling, when the cluster is running hot, there is contention when trying to update the taskupdate size stats, as it is a synchronized method. So this PR is to have the ability to disable this task update size tracking.

Impact

None

Test Plan

Existing tests

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[shangm2]

LGTM