feat: Support configuring ListenerClass preset (with sensible defaults)

[sbernauer]

Description

Part of stackabletech/issues#770

With recent changes from stackabletech/issues#770, stackablectl demo install on kind broke, as kind by default does not have a LoadBalancer installed.

We could try to document/automate/whatnot this, but I expect significant user problems with this. So instead we can make stackablectl a little bit more clever and detect kind and k3s and don't use LoadBalancers in that case.

stackablectl now tries the following order and simple passes the result to the listener-operator helm-chart:

1. Use --listener-class-preset flag
2. If not set determine Kubernetes environment (kind, k3, IONOS) by looking at nodes and use according defaults
3. If any error occurs, default to ephemeral-nodes

PS: Yes I know the OnceCell is not ideal, but I hope this is a temporary feature until #406 is implemented properly.

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[NickLarsenNZ]

I think even then, there is a valid case to keep it as a shortcut.

[sbernauer]

Removed in 3019ae3

[NickLarsenNZ]

Some recommended changes.

I will update the PR description.

I also think "preset" should be plural: "presets", but that's outside of the scope of this and would need to change in the chart.

[sbernauer]

I also think "preset" should be plural: "presets", but that's outside of the scope of this and would need to change in the chart.

Hmm, I think preset is technically more correct, as it's e.g. "stable-nodes".
Yes, that produces 1..n ListenerClasses, but it's still a single preset, isn't it?