Add `sharedMemory` option to allow threads with shared memory #1105

Job	Run time
Build for native target (macos-12, Xcode_14.0)	46s
Build and Test (macos-12, wasm-5.9.1-RELEASE, Node, Xcode_13.4.1.app)	4m 38s
Build for native target (macos-13, Xcode_14.3)	38s
Build and Test (macos-13, wasm-5.9.1-RELEASE, Node, Xcode_14.3.app)	7m 55s
Build for native target (macos-14, Xcode_15.2)	17s
Build and Test (macos-14, wasm-5.9.1-RELEASE, Node, Xcode_15.2.app)	1m 58s
Build and Test (ubuntu-22.04, wasm-5.9.1-RELEASE, Node)	1m 51s
Build and Test (ubuntu-20.04, wasm-5.7.3-RELEASE, Node)	1m 28s
Build and Test (ubuntu-20.04, wasm-5.8.0-RELEASE, Node)	1m 26s
Build and Test (ubuntu-20.04, wasm-5.7.3-RELEASE, MicroWASI)	1m 32s
Build and Test (ubuntu-20.04, wasm-5.8.0-RELEASE, MicroWASI)	1m 22s
Build and Test (ubuntu-20.04, wasm-5.9.1-RELEASE, MicroWASI)	1m 41s
Build and Test (ubuntu-22.04, wasm-DEVELOPMENT-SNAPSHOT-2024-05-02-a, Node)	2m 0s
	27m 32s

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