tso: add retry for UpdateTSO

[lhy1024]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: Close #9020

What is changed and how does it work?

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 76.24%. Comparing base (dcb426b) to head (ebbb024).
Report is 1428 commits behind head on master.

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Timeline:

• 2025-02-05 02:58:33.033534029 +0000 UTC m=+240584.565946028: ☑️ agreed by nolouch.
• 2025-02-05 07:33:01.936845935 +0000 UTC m=+257053.469257934: ☑️ agreed by rleungx.

[lhy1024]

I will test it with new commit

[lhy1024]

/hold

[lhy1024]

it is also stable with new hash

https://tcms.pingcap.net/dashboard/executions/plan/7816929

https://tcms.pingcap.net/dashboard/executions/plan/7816937