feat: isomorphic wasi (again) and patched wasi-js

[MarkMcCulloh]

This PR reintroduces #1571 with 3 additional changes to avoid the last regression:

• patch-package is used to mess with wasi-js, to remove the preinstall script from their package.json. The patching is performed during packaging, where it's actually effective (for downstream consumers).
• wasi-js is included as a bundled dep for winglang to ensure that the patched package.json is appropriately included in time and not just replaced when wing is installed. Normally this isn't needed with patch package, but due to the particular mutation I'm not sure this is avoidable
• Added checks to hangar to ensure we avoid introducing script hooks. I verified that these tests pass with the latest version of the repo but fail the version noted in the regression.

The changes from the original PR are untouched.

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Congrats! 🚀 This was released in Wing 0.5.57.