Use importlib.metadata in docs build

[A5rocks]

This also makes RTD install trio instead of depending on import trio working. IMO this is more correct.

Supersedes #3190.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 100.00000%. Comparing base (ed2a7d3) to head (ad2d101).
Report is 51 commits behind head on main.

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